50 thoughts to ponder

50 Thoughts to Ponder

 

1. Life isnt fair, but its still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Dont take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You dont have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. Its more healing than crying alone.

8. Its OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9 Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it wont screw up the present.

12. Its OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Dont compare your life with others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14 If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldnt be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But dont worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. Its never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, dont take "no" for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Dont save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Dont wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job wont take care of you when you are sick. Your family will.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Whatever doesnt kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative! dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elses, wed grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isnt useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you dont ask, you dont get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isnt tied with a bow, but its still a gift.

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Think About it - Nikhil Bhatt

I was raised by an moderate fashioned Mother and a liberal Father. I was taught to love all. I was taught to show compassion. I was taught to recognize frailty. This I learned from my Mother. I was taught to be open-minded. I was taught to trust as well as to be suspicious. I was taught to be judgmental. I was taught the importance of being vigil as well as being suspicious. This I learned from my Father. We as humans with the profound knowledge of original sin are imperfect individuals. Our unique ideology empowers us to form close ties with like minded individuals. Regrettably this individualism creates boundaries. These limitations restrict out understanding and our relationship with God. We are fallible. We are susceptible to rhetoric. A common sermon, speech or discourse is what allows us to shape our philosophy. A way of life is the behavior we outwardly display to others.

Are we putting on a show? If so for who. So we act one way in public and secretly loathe those we are expected to aid. Double standards exist in every society across the globe. It matters not the social, economic, religious or demographics. What matters is the commonality we all share. Contempt for the destitute, deprived, feeble and insignificant.

How dare we judge? How arrogant of us to presume we know all. Many denigrate God by failing to appreciate the simplicity of the world He created. We were put he in his image. Nothing is required of us. We merely are expected to be. In simple terms. We are a reflection of God. We are an embodiment, a personification of truly holy being. Any distillation of that creation taints the holiness of life.

If everyone followed the GOLDEN RULE , our world would be a better place.

Society is defined as. . . More broadly, a society is an economic, social or industrial infrastructure, made up of a varied collection of individuals. So what kind of a society are we? A child is born dependent and is celebrated, in an independent society, when they can say "I can do it for myself." However a tribal child is encouraged to grow beyond independence into interdependence, so they can say "I can do it for others". Are we a group of individuals with common goals? (I.e. school, career, marriage, house, family) Or, are we individuals who become part of a group. (i.e., school, career, marriage, house, family, community, government, world.)

We have progressed in science and technology. We are proud of our Military and our elected officials. We support our Police and Educators. We donate to Charities and Volunteer. Yet we still treat each other with disrespect, Hatred runs ramped through our hearts.

We justify this by stating morals and principles, values and ideals or ethics and beliefs. What is society? It is a large group of people who live in a confined area? Is it individuals who come together in a geographic location? Is it economics? Is it religion?

I was raised by an old fashioned Mother and a liberal Father. I have had the best of both worlds. I have been rich. I have been poor. I have been treated like a king. I have been violently abused. I have been faithful to God. I have fallen away from God.

What I have witnessed is the implausible. Yet I remain optimistic that humanity can overcome its immaturity.We judge a family by its economic standing. Can they keep up with the us? If not then they are not worth my time and compassion.

I have worked with many desperate individuals. What the Men crave most is common decency, respect and dignity. We as a society need to model compassion for all, empathy in the face of adversity and altruistic with deliberate concern for humanity. It matters not if someone is homeless dignity is a simple human right granted to us by GOD. Love your neighbors as you would love yourself.

Reflect on your life. If in these trying times you find yourself in a similar situation, would you not want to be treated with dignity?

You may find yourself pondering the very thought as this economy is struggling. Put yourself in their shoes. You will find yourself smiling at the man or woman on the corner asking for help. You may just find yourself talking to that tattered stranger. You may just find you have more in common than you think.

In reality, that man or woman is you.

For we all are a reflection of God.

Whats LIFE ??????

We all ask this question to ourselves , we all try to search for an answer , but the search varies from person to person , search varies on the intensity of time ...... ! ! ! !
so tell me whats life ?

is it achieving serenity ? if you say YES, then i will ask this " a goon kills people for money , even if he has enough he will still continue to do the same . . . . that doesnt helps him in achieving serenity . . . but still he lives and above all he is satisfied ! ! ! !" . . .

is it achieving immortality ?
"well ... if so then , a person who is in love can sacrifice his/her life just for the sake of his partner , a soldier is ready die and sacrifice for his country at any given time ...... " does that means they dont wish to attain immortality ...

i will tell you what life is not about : -

1. rat race ... no .. its not about what you are , where you reach ...
2. filling your belly with luxury ...... no ...
3. good education ... no way .. ! ! ! ! education is just a media to keep outselves aware about toxic and intoxic stuff in our environment . . . . it helps us to make decision on what to choose and what not to ....

LIFE is all about : -
LIVING . . . . Yes its that simple . . . its all about living . . . . its all about changing things for a better tomorrow . . . its about knowing that we the humans are most powerful among other animals , but that doesnt give us the freedom or right to attack their homes and capture them for our sake ..
its about knowing that no two people are same , so stop comparing people !!!!
its about knowing that whatever you do , wherever you reach , you will never be satiable ...
its about helping others , its about living for others , its about LIVING .. simply LIVING . . . .

So guys , if you have understood the meaning of life then stop existing (like i do) & start living . . .

On Love ! ! ! !

well ....guys define LOVE : - ............ ?

hmmm .. i can define LOVE as , " giving everything you have , everything you like , everything you know and never asking it back .... !!!! "

thats love ... love can take many forms , it can be in the form of care , in the form of enemity , hatred etc , yeah i am right , it can be in any form ..........
we get hurt because we love somebody , the person whom you love , is the only person who can hurt you , rest no one possibly can .... !!!!
no one can teach you to love ......... its a self learning experience ... that can be achieved only when you learn to respect others , when you learn to forgive , when you learn to hold on even after you get betrayed , thats when you learn to love .
And when you achieve this ....... you achieve serenity ...........

Some great person said this to me : - " Everybody Loves Somebody Sometimes . . . . ! ! ! ! "

On The Crisis That We Are Facing ! ! ! !

All we have is insecurity .....

insecurity of losing fuel , insecurity of losing water , insecurity of losing our near and dear ones ( in some bomb blast or in some accidents . as any tom , dick & harry gets a license to kill in India ).

What according to you is the problem (base) for the crisis' that we are facing .. or the entire world is facing ?

Answer : - Its the population ....!!!!
Now the population is beyond any scale ....
We not only need to stop this ever increasing population .. but we also need to decrease the same ...

how ??????

well dont kill innocent people , but make sure the criminals get nothing less than death penalty ..
even if anyone commits a little theft ... should be killed ...
Then..... no one will dare to commit any sort of crime .. thereby decreasing the crime ka graph ... ! !

Their should be a meter installed on .. water pipes.. ( for calculating incoming water supply as well as outgoing water supply ..... for every and any house .. or building ... ) .
Charges should be levied on water flowing in both directions ...
Hence , insane people will stop wasting water and there will be no leaking taps . . . .

Instead of installing stupid satellites.... instead of sending humans and space shuttles on moon ...
lets use the tremendous amount of money in generating solar power or bio power ....

That will help us to get rid of power shortage ka problem which our entire country is facing .
Every couple should have atmost two kids , not more than that ... and if they wish to have kids(more than 2) then they will have to pay extra tax for that extra kid . . . . till he / she livcs !!!!

If any person adopts orphan kids then he / she will get total tax exemption . . . .

please suggest some more points if you can .....